Sex and the fair sex
What is sex? Ab initio, sex is appreciable, beautiful, charming, divine, elegant, festal, grand, happy, ideal, jocund, knowable, lusty, magnificent, natural, opulent, pious, quenching, revering, stupendous, taming, uplifting, virtual, whopping, xilling, yeoman and zealous. Sex is the heavenly synartesis of male and female bodies. Therefore sex is blissful and not a sin. According to great western writer Richard F. Ames, “sex pervades our modern culture. Some consider it a ‘forbidden fruit,’ while others seek to experience it in all its forms.”
I love sex, the fair sex, sex kitten, setulae and the sex fruits. Nevertheless, the cent percent literate Malayalis are hypocrites in sex. While openly go up against sex, at the same moment they secretly carry out adoring ludicrous illicit sex. Instead of direct, open and natural sex, they prefer covert grungy sex. I ask Malayalis please do not skimp sex. Our conventional wisdom and family set up generally consider discussing about sex openly at home with children is indecent and taboo and many a parents discourage and strictly prohibit such talks. According to Hindu philosophy, sex is a Godly act. Dharma, Artha, Kama, Moksha are equally important and absence of any of these principle pursuits of life will make human life incomplete. It may note that Valsyayanan, a Hindu sage, wrote Kamasastram, the science of sex, for the whole people of the world.
Sex is an urge of human body and inexorable for the existence of humankind. If we ignore sex, human society will disappear. We should not keep a grubby, hypocrite, erroneous and immature attitude towards sex. In sex, lack of knowledge and improper knowledge is equally harmful and shall endanger the society. Our children must get proper orientation on sex, healthy sex and sex hygiene at younger age. In olden days, joint-family system imparted sex education. Parents and guardians, especially mothers, grandmothers and grand grandmothers, effectively educated sex to their children through religion, customs, traditions and rituals. However, nowadays the scenario has been changed to nuclear family set up which resulted children are not properly guided and adequately educated in sex. The present LDF government in Kerala was dubious to start sex education in schools fearing the wrath of fundamental religious elements. However, many other states with less literacy rate already introduced sex education in their school curriculum.
Being a researcher on sex, I would like to articulate my studies and acquired knowledge in a better aesthetic and moral manner for sex education. Derived from my learning and research I am planning to write a new free translation, commentary and interpretation about Valsyayanan’s Kamasastram incorporating my case studies, first in Malayalam and later in English. Obviously, it will be a totally different and new book written with the analysis of modern sex life in India, especially by Malayalis, and without any resemblance to Nalappad Narayana Menon’s Rathisamrajyam.
Recalling the molestation of a foreign tourist girl during the revelries of New Year celebration on 31 December 2007 night at Marine Drive in Ernakulam and later the molestation of a teenage tourist girl at Kumarakam by a security staff of a resort I would suggest, nay demand, to Government of Kerala to take immediate steps to implement the following:
I love sex, the fair sex, sex kitten, setulae and the sex fruits. Nevertheless, the cent percent literate Malayalis are hypocrites in sex. While openly go up against sex, at the same moment they secretly carry out adoring ludicrous illicit sex. Instead of direct, open and natural sex, they prefer covert grungy sex. I ask Malayalis please do not skimp sex. Our conventional wisdom and family set up generally consider discussing about sex openly at home with children is indecent and taboo and many a parents discourage and strictly prohibit such talks. According to Hindu philosophy, sex is a Godly act. Dharma, Artha, Kama, Moksha are equally important and absence of any of these principle pursuits of life will make human life incomplete. It may note that Valsyayanan, a Hindu sage, wrote Kamasastram, the science of sex, for the whole people of the world.
Sex is an urge of human body and inexorable for the existence of humankind. If we ignore sex, human society will disappear. We should not keep a grubby, hypocrite, erroneous and immature attitude towards sex. In sex, lack of knowledge and improper knowledge is equally harmful and shall endanger the society. Our children must get proper orientation on sex, healthy sex and sex hygiene at younger age. In olden days, joint-family system imparted sex education. Parents and guardians, especially mothers, grandmothers and grand grandmothers, effectively educated sex to their children through religion, customs, traditions and rituals. However, nowadays the scenario has been changed to nuclear family set up which resulted children are not properly guided and adequately educated in sex. The present LDF government in Kerala was dubious to start sex education in schools fearing the wrath of fundamental religious elements. However, many other states with less literacy rate already introduced sex education in their school curriculum.
Being a researcher on sex, I would like to articulate my studies and acquired knowledge in a better aesthetic and moral manner for sex education. Derived from my learning and research I am planning to write a new free translation, commentary and interpretation about Valsyayanan’s Kamasastram incorporating my case studies, first in Malayalam and later in English. Obviously, it will be a totally different and new book written with the analysis of modern sex life in India, especially by Malayalis, and without any resemblance to Nalappad Narayana Menon’s Rathisamrajyam.
Recalling the molestation of a foreign tourist girl during the revelries of New Year celebration on 31 December 2007 night at Marine Drive in Ernakulam and later the molestation of a teenage tourist girl at Kumarakam by a security staff of a resort I would suggest, nay demand, to Government of Kerala to take immediate steps to implement the following:
- Earmark some place in Thiruvanathapuram, Kochi and Kozhikode to start brothels and allow legality to prostitution at the designated places similar to red streets of Mumbai and Kolkata.
- Introduce sex education in all schools.
- Strict adherence of laws and severe punishments against molestation, sexual harassments, attempt to seduce the modesty of a woman and rape.
- Frequently conduct seminars and debates on sex in visual and print media to create awareness amongst teens and youth about sex, sex hygiene, sex problems and sex diseases. Similarly, educational institutions, civic bodies, social organizations and NGOs do take initiative to organize road shows, discussions, symposia and exhibitions to teach sex sanctity.
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Dear Sir,
I would like to contct you personally to clear my doubts. How and when can I meet you?
Kindly reply to me.
Regards,
Shalini Mathew
Email: smilenowplease@yahoo.com
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